NEXT TO GOOD LOVING

Im going to be honest. The more I’ve learned about myself, intimacy and sexual exploits. I know that NO STRINGS ATTACHED just ain’t for me.

Before you think this is my announcement that I’m abandoning whatever lifestyle and free loving sex life....this is not that.

Her...

Yeah I said it.  

Fight me.  

Don’t worry, I’m a sucker for Valentine’s, romance, love and all the mushy stuff.  

But, timehop reminded me of one of the worst Vdays I’ve ever had... 

Damn I was cute.   But on the verge of tears y’all.   

We were still in the newish in love...

What. A. Week. 

I mean seriously. 

Mentally, physically and emotionally I’ve felt like I was just lost and spinning further into a void. Lost and alone. As the weekend came closer, sad news of a sick soror just took me all the way out. I didn’t think I could stand an...

Four years ago I wrote this after my night of being stranded with many strangers at IHOP

After a soak in the tub, two showers and probably five times brushing my teeth I can now sit and write about my stranded experience. I’m not going to discuss how GDOT, our mayor and...

I was having a conversation with my best friends.  You know, the ones that make you have those revelations about your life?  Yeah those. 

Well this conversation was about relationships.  

It started out as a dialogue about the niceties we share with friends and...

So I actually requested a dick pic.  

In the days when we’re mad about getting meat monsters and sausages randomly to our inboxes, I actually requested one.   

Picture it.  Sunday rooftop club day party. 

In the blazing Johannesburg afternoon sun.  

I’m...

I can’t believe I’m in South Africa writing about my trip to Cabo San Lucas.  From the Pacific Ocean to the Indian Ocean in 365 days!  

Wait.  I’m being rude. 

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Hold tight for my blog post about bringing in the New Year with AfroPunk and my girls in Johannesburg and Durban, South Africa!

For my 40th birthday I decided to celebrate by traveling to a different location each month of my year!

Join me as I recount the journey.